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Beyond the Rules: Finding God by Loving Your Neighbor in Action

July 13, 2025 Kurt Henson

Just living in your neighborhood,  you probably see a lot. People rushing to work, kids heading to school, the familiar faces at the local grocery store. We all have our routines, our to-do lists, the things we feel we should be doing. And if we're people of faith, that often includes a set of rules and observances we strive to follow. Today’s Gospel really echoes in my mind, nudging me to look beyond the checklist and into the heart of what it truly means to love God.

It's the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). You know the one – the lawyer trying to pin Jesus down with questions about eternal life, the seemingly straightforward answer about loving God and neighbor, and then the crucial follow-up: "And who is my neighbor?"

Jesus' response isn't a theological dissertation; it's a story. A vivid, unforgettable story about a man left for dead, and the surprising hero who stops to help – a Samaritan, no less, someone considered an outsider by the religious establishment. The priest and the Levite, the ones who should have known better, the ones who likely followed all the rules, they passed by. Their observance didn't translate into action, their piety didn't extend to the bleeding man on the roadside.

About a month ago, I was running late for something.  My mind was racing – did I print out the necessary documents? Would I find a park spot and be on time? As I hurried down the sidewalk, I saw a woman struggling with several heavy bags, one of them having ripped and spilling groceries onto the pavement. My first instinct, if I'm being honest, was to keep going. I was late, after all. I had my own important things to do.

But then that quiet voice, the one that sometimes gets drowned out by the noise of daily life, whispered, "Who is your neighbor?"

I stopped. I turned around. And for the next few minutes, I helped the woman gather her scattered groceries. We even shared a little laugh over a rogue can of minestrone soup that seemingly had legs and tried to escape as it rolled a few feet away. I ended up being a few minutes late to my meeting, but as I sat there, I realized something profound. In that small act of helping a stranger, a neighbor in that moment of need, I felt a deeper connection to something larger than my own schedule, a truer sense of purpose than ticking off an item on my to-do list.

This, I believe, is what Jesus was getting at. Our profession of love for God isn't just about attending services or reciting prayers – although those things are important expressions of faith. It's about the tangible, messy, sometimes inconvenient act of extending merciful love to those around us. Our neighbor isn't just the person who lives next door or shares our beliefs; it's anyone whose path we cross and who is in need of our compassion.

And how does mindfulness fit into this? In our busy lives, it's so easy to become caught up in our own thoughts and agendas that we become blind to the needs of others right in front of us. Mindfulness, the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment, can help us become more attuned to the world around us.

Imagine walking down the street and truly seeing the people you pass. Not just as obstacles in your way, but as fellow human beings, each with their own stories and potential needs. Mindfulness encourages us to slow down, to notice the subtle cues – the furrowed brow, the struggling with a heavy load, the look of loneliness.

By cultivating a mindful awareness, we create the space for compassion to arise naturally. We move from a place of automatic reaction ("I'm late, I can't stop") to a place of conscious engagement ("This person needs help. What can I do?"). It allows us to truly see our neighbor, not as an abstract concept, but as a real person deserving of our kindness.

The path to eternal life isn't a rigid set of rules etched in stone. It's a journey of the heart, a continuous unfolding of love in action. It's about recognizing the divine spark in every person we encounter and responding with mercy, just as the Good Samaritan did. So, the next time you're rushing through your day, wherever you may be, take a mindful breath. Look around. Who is your neighbor at this moment? And how can you show them the love that God has so freely given to us? It might just be in that simple act of service that you discover the truest meaning of faith.


In Christianity, Bible Study, Mindfulness, Personal Growth, Spirituality Tags Good Samaritan blog, Love your neighbor meaning, Luke 10:25-37 reflection, Faith in action, Christian mindfulness, What makes a good neighbor, Helping others blog, Spiritual growth, Compassion and faith, Christian living today, How to put faith into practice, Finding God in everyday life, Mindfulness for Christians, Parable of the Good Samaritan modern meaning, Relatable faith stories
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